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Your Beliefs Limit Your Career Success Introduction and Definitions We say that a belief is empowering if it furthers your goals and intentions. We say that a belief is limiting or disempowering if it diminishes your ability to create your life in an optimum way. Some beliefs are conscious and some are not. When you have a belief that you are unaware of, we say that the belief is transparent. Transparent beliefs continue to effect your life behind the scenes. Your level of conviction with a belief is also important. When you feel that a belief is absolutely true, you have a high level of conviction. When a person has a repeating pattern of experience, they are creating their pattern of experience through a viewpoint or collection of beliefs. The beliefs operate as a filter or lens which generates their experience which in turn reinforces the beliefs which in turn perpetuates the pattern of experiencing. To break the pattern at the source, the person needs to first become aware of how they are actually generating or creating their pattern of experience through their beliefs. This involves discovering the transparent, limiting beliefs that are at the source of the pattern. They need to identify the viewpoint that is responsible for perpetuating the experience and shift their viewpoint consciously and intentionally. Also, for real change to occur, the shift in viewpoint needs to occur "experientially", i.e. it needs to occur physically, mentally and emotionally. The process of shifting viewpoints in this way can be an experience of profound transformation because it is through this process that you realize you are the chooser and creator of your viewpoint. This realization, once it occurs, will change your perception that your experiences are a result of chance or forces outside your control. Example 1: Charles continued to accept jobs that made him unhappy despite having great skills and a good education. Through the process of shifting viewpoints he became aware of the source of the pattern. He realized that he always viewed jobs from the viewpoint "Jobs and work are tough and not much fun." Perhaps he originally learned this viewpoint when he was young from parents who also held this viewpoint. His adoption of this viewpoint was probably unconscious but the discovery of his operating viewpoint (that perpetuated his experience) allowed him to reclaim his ability to choose how he will create his life. Example 2: Sally had difficulty deciding what career she wanted to pursue. After investigating this with her coach she discovered that she was trying to make a "forced choice" from many strong interests she had. Every time she considered a particular occupation she felt as if something important was being "left out." As a result, she was reluctant to make any decision. Her limiting belief was "I can only do one thing and I must eliminate all the other things that I enjoy". While her mind was attempting to make the forced choice, her emotions were rebelling against this idea thus paralyzing her from taking action and moving forward. What is a Workable Method? The traditional job search model, i.e. resume, cover letter, blanketing companies with your information and hoping you will generating interest, going on interviews hoping to get a second one, etc. is a model that works too infrequently to be a workable method. Most people know this but they cling to it anyway because they simply do not have an alternative. Now, you do. People also cling to outdated methods because they are terrified of admitting they don't have a real answer or solution. In the steps below, you will learn a real, workable method for locating, creating and solidifying a large variety of profitable opportunities. Some of these may turn out to be traditional salaried employment and others may take different forms such as consulting, independent contract work, projects, partnerships, paid internships, freelance opportunities, etc. The bottom line is that they all have one thing in common—putting cash in your bank account. Utilizing a Systems Solution I recommend that you print the 10 steps for achieving success in the Hidden Job Market below, and use it as checklist as you progress through your job/career transition process. If you would like some assistance in completing these steps, we're available to help. Just send us an email to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it and we'll respond promptly. 10 steps for achieving success in the Hidden Job Market Step 1: Give Up the Job Seeker Label There may be a temporary vacuum caused by not knowing how to think and speak of yourself but not to worry, this gap will be replaced very quickly with a new, refreshing and empowering sense of professional identity, one that restores a sense of clarity, dignity and sense of personal power to your professional life. Step 2: Adopt a New Empowering Identity If you cannot think of a good name, brainstorm with your friends or coach if you have one but most importantly stop talking about getting a job and being hired unless you like having doors slammed in your face. Labels are a form of branding or positioning which either open doors or close them. The employee label is a diminishing, self limiting label that often results in giving your power away. This is ultimately damaging to your self esteem and self respect. If you feel you must continue to use this job seeker label, get yourself a hat (a baseball cap) and place the label "employee" on it. Then on a second hat place the label "The Real Me". Then, when you are functioning in the capacity of job seeker, wear the employee hat and at other times wear the hat "The Real Me". To make this exercise really powerful, confine your actions with each hat to behaviors that are consistent with that label. Now notice the feelings you have when wearing each of your hats. Step 3: Get to Know the New You Your challenge is primarily in letting go of old outdated notions and beliefs that no longer serve you and which are simply no longer effective in the marketplace. The world has changed. It is time to wake up. See my article Winning in a World Without Jobs at http://bit.ly/tYShB if you are new to these changes or need a refresher. Acknowledging the truth about this to yourself may be difficult in light of the fact that so many advisors continue to tell you to revise your resume yet again and to do more networking. Note: Networking is meaningless term unless you understand precisely what it means and have the tools and skills to bring about the end result. Without having all the tools, you are likely to get yourself more frustrated. The chain is only as strong as the weakest link. Step 4: Translate Your Accomplishments into Solutions and Value The easiest way to do this is to start with one recent and important accomplishment. Go back in time to just before your accomplishment happened and take a visual snapshot in your mind of the state of affairs in the organization or environment in which you were working. Then ask yourself this key question: what were the chief problems or needs that existed? Write them down. Now fast forward to right after you completed your accomplishment and once again, take a snapshot of the situation and environment. Ask yourself these questions and write down your answers.
Instead of focusing on your talents and skills that you usually take for granted, focus instead on the value that you brought to the situation. Now continue this process with your remaining accomplishments. When you have done this exercise with all of them, take a step back and look for the dominant pattern of solutions and value that you repeatedly bring to each situation. If you look closely, you will find this pattern. This will then become the focal point in your letter of introduction in step 6 below. Step 5: Stop Using a Resume If you decide to actively pursue the 30% of advertised positions, use a functional resume only and keep a chronological work history separate from this document. Only provide your chronological work history if requested in an interview but otherwise do not even speak about it. Why? Chronological resumes are NOT effective marketing tools no matter how well they are written. They will also tend to pigeon-hole you into a stifling corporate mindset. A good example is the familiar gap in your resume, used by interviewers all the time to disqualify you. Do you really want to play this game? Do you insist on punishing yourself in this manner? Here is a good response to the question "what were you doing between job A and Job B?"; "I was living my life, how about you?" Step 6: Develop and Use a Letter of Introduction Even the act of writing this letter is transformational because it opens the door to a freely expressive channel in you which allows you to convey who you are, the greatest value you have to offer and what you are seeking. The letter of introduction works equally well as an prelude to a serious business conversation and a networking interaction which can put you in touch with key people very quickly. You may want to have a few versions of your letter for different purposes. Learning to write and utilize a letter of introduction begins to awaken you to the world of effective marketing, something significantly absent in most job seekers. The Letter of Introduction has several main components which are as follows:
In our Breakthrough Coaching programs, you will acquire in depth tools and support for writing and utilizing your letter of introduction. To schedule your complimentary consultation, send us an email to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it with some good times in your schedule to chat. Step 7: Use Social Media Strategies to Identify Matching Problems and Needs
Once you have answered these questions you can then start your search and sorting process. You will want to concentrate on LinkedIn and Twitter to establish connections but another great resource will be industry specific networks and contacts. Step 8: Begin Conversations With People Matching Your Profile The art of relationship building and relationship based selling is one of our most powerful courses at Breakthrough Coaching. To learn about it, send us an email at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . You will also find that you can share your goal and directly ask people for referrals to people and organizations that match your profile. Sending them your letter of introduction is usually ideal at this juncture especially if they give any indication of interest or receptivity. Be sure you have a clear plan on how you are going to present yourself and the best way to interact with new contacts. You can work out these details with your coach if you have one and if not, you can do some role plays with friends or family. The aim is to get comfortable and confident with your approach and get it refined to the point where you can carry the conversation forward to completing a deal if appropriate. Step 9: Complete Profitable Agreements With Best Organization(s) This can be a very quick and straightforward process when you have really clicked and have what the person needs. In other situations it may take several meetings to complete the deal. Either way, you will want to be clear on the entire conversation and sales process and also clear on how you will take the person through the important steps. This is a stage where having a buddy or a coach for brainstorming is important. Role playing is the perfect tool for gaining clarity, skill and confidence in presenting yourself. At Breakthrough Coaching, supporting people with mastering their sales process is our forte. Just email us at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it and we'll get back to you asap. Step 10: Utilize an Effective Learning, Coaching System to Ensure and Accelerate Your Success The ideal starting point is our no cost phone consultation in which we will assess your personal situation and then devise a complete plan of action tailored to your personal needs. Just send an email to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it including times you're available to chat by phone and a brief description of your situation. We'll get back to you asap with a good time to schedule. Keep in mind that most significant growth and learning in life takes place in the context of supportive relationships. No matter what your circumstances may be, working in partnership with others will have profound impact and value. If your tendency until now has been to operate as the lone ranger, it is time to reach out and connect with others. Our Breakthrough Alliance page on facebook is a community of people supporting one another. Check out our page and join us at http://bit.ly/7XzkE. All the articles and blog entries on our website, breakthroughcoaching.cc will prove very useful too. Just go to breakthroughcoaching.cc and click on the article link located on the main menu. I hope that these steps have been helpful to you. Please send your feedback, comments and questions to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .. This allows me to continue refining the materials so it helps more people! |